Celebrating a Q and U Wedding in Kindergarten (2024)

Last week my kindergarten students celebrated a very special event… the Wedding of Q and U! If you are not already familiar with this event, let me fill you in! It is a silly, fanciful, wonderful way to teach students the spelling pattern of “qu” in a way that is truly memorable. The wedding reinforces the idea that every time we write a word with a q in kindergarten, we always follow the q with a u.

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We have celebrated the Q and U wedding for several years, but this time I pulled out all the stops and “Kinder-Crazed” the event! Keep reading to discover creative ideas, inspiration, and printable party accents available for purchase in the Kinder Craze store.

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Just like an actual wedding, our celebration consisted of two parts: a wedding ceremony and a reception. Our wedding ceremony was held in the gym, then we moved down the hall to an extra classroom in my school for the reception. I stayed at school EXTRA late the night before to set everything up. The pennant banners and printable goods are from myQ and U Wedding Party Printables pack. All of the table coverings, lanterns, and napkins are from Party City.

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The large Q and U figures are also available included in the printable pack. I took my image of the bride and groom to a local printing company and had them print two 24×36″ posters of the image. One poster was cut apart to create props for students to hold during the wedding. The other poster was cut apart to create the large party decorations that you see on the table.

I purchased black and white photo boxes and decorative ribbon at Michaels for the reception gifts. The pink ribbon was hot glued onto each photo box and lid (separately). I also printed and laminated the Q and U figures and hot glued these atop each of the boxes to add a little decorative flair. This created a coordinating set of gift boxes that can be easily opened during the reception and are durable enough to be used for several years.

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I’ll fill you in on more of the reception details later. Let’s get back to the wedding!

Preparing for the Q and U Wedding

Although the wedding is a quick event, we work hard to make it a special event for the Kindergarten students. Invitations are sent home to each students family, informing parents that they are welcome to attend. Four students are selected to have a special role in the event: one bride, one groom, and two flower girls.

A few days before the wedding, the class worked together to create a special “white carpet” just like in a real wedding. We unrolled a long sheet of butcher paper and each child decorated the carpet by writing Q and U with a dot marker. Here you can see the completed carpet as the kindergarten students anxiously await the wedding.

Each student in the class also created a special hat for the event, which can be found in my Q and U Wedding pack on TpT. The girls’ hats were made with white construction paper bands and the boys’ hats used black construction paper. I loved the traditional wedding color scheme of black and white.

Q and U Wedding Ceremony

The moment finally arrived! The bride, groom, and flower girls waited in the hallway while the other students took their seats in the gym.

The bride and groom each carry a large character print down the aisle. I met with someone at my local print shop whohelped me find the perfect paper quality and heavy laminate for the character prints. The bride and groom pictures were secured to yardsticks covered with black and white duct tape. It was important to me that the printed characters not flap around while they were carried. The laminated prints remained tall and rigid during all of the festivities.

The school principal performed the wedding ceremony. It was very short and very sweet.


Once the ceremony was complete, the bride and groom let the wedding guests to the reception!


An Q and U Wedding Reception with Adorable Elegance

Very few young children get to actually attend a wedding and I wanted this reception to seem every bit as special as the real thing. My students mouth’s dropped when they saw the transformation of the formerly bland, empty room into the elegant reception hall for the wedding.

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A gift table was set up in the front of the room. The students gathered in front of the table and sat on the floor while they watched the bride, groom, and two flower girls open the wedding gifts.

Each child opened one box. The boxes contained items beginning with “qu”… a quarter, queen, question mark, and (or course) a quilt. If you don’t have physical objects to place inthe boxes, images for the gifts are included in the Q and U Wedding Printable Pack. Simply print, laminate, and wrap!




A closer view of the treasures at the treasures on the gift table…

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What’s a wedding without cake? After the gifts were opened, it was time to eat!

As you can imagine, I don’t have a lot of spare time for cake-baking. Fancy Cakes from Little Debbie were the perfect treat. Just the right size for my kindergarten students, pretty much mess-free, and (of course) they were fancy!

Little Debbie actually has a product locator on their website. Check to see if Fancy Cakes are available at a store near you!

The students had so much fun at their little reception and their parents enjoyed the sweetness of the experience!

Invitations, bunting, student hats and MORE can be found in my Q and U Wedding Party Printables pack. Check it out in the Kinder Craze store!

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Do you throw celebrate a Q and U wedding at school? I would love to hear how you make the event special in your own classroom!

Celebrating a Q and U Wedding in Kindergarten (2024)

FAQs

What is the purpose of the Q and U wedding? ›

The Q&U Wedding is an annual tradition for CA dating back over ten years. The wedding serves as an interactive grammar lesson. Students are reminded that Q and U work together to make words like quandary and quarrel but that U can stand alone for words like underwear!

What is the question for the wedding I do? ›

Exchange of Vows

Man answers, "I do." Notary asks the woman, "(her name), do you take this man to be your husband, to live together in (holy) matrimony, to love him, to honor him, to comfort him, and to keep him in sickness and in health, forsaking all others, for as long as you both shall live?"

What are the words for the asking in a wedding ceremony? ›

Do you [Name], take this [woman/man/person] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife], to live together in matrimony, to love [her/him/them], comfort [her/him/them], honor and keep [her/him/them], in sickness and in health, in sorrow and in joy, to have and to hold, from this day forward, as long as you both shall live ...

What is the script for wedding involving children? ›

us come together as a family - mother, father, child, together from this day on. I promise to love, guide, and respect (child's name) and (spouse's name) as long as we all shall live. pledging your love to your child/children as well, committing to them and to each other to create a family together.

Are kids allowed wedding Q&A? ›

If kids are invited, let it be known on the invitation. However, if they are not, here are a few ways to answers this question: “We look forward to celebrating with you! Kick your shoes off and enjoy a relaxing kid-free evening with us.”

What was the purpose of a wedding? ›

A celebration of Holy Matrimony typically includes mutual vows or solemn promises of lifelong love and fidelity by the couple, and may include some sort of pledge by the community to support the couple's relationship.

What are the 4 things at a wedding? ›

The tradition is based on an Old English rhyme that dates back to 19th-century Lancashire. It describes the items a bride should have on her wedding day: "something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue, a sixpence in your shoe."

How do you answer kids questions on a wedding website? ›

11. Are kids welcome? “While we love your little ones, our wedding will be an adults-only event so that everyone can relax and enjoy the evening. We appreciate you making arrangements ahead of time and leaving the kids at home so you can celebrate with us.”

What are the 3 promises of marriage? ›

The couple could promise each other to "love and cherish" or, alternatively, the groom promises to "love, cherish, and worship", and the bride to "love, cherish, and obey".

Who reads vows first? ›

In a traditional wedding, the groom is usually the one to say his vows first. But today, either part of the couple has the option of saying their vows first. This preference on vows varies depending on what you select as a couple, your beliefs, what your officiant recommends, or the order of events you choose.

What are the best opening words for a wedding ceremony? ›

Welcome to the most important day in the lives of [NAME] and [NAME].” “Today is a celebration and we are here to celebrate with [NAME] and [NAME].” “Love has brought [NAME] and [NAME] and everyone in this room together today.”

How do you make a wedding for kids? ›

To keep your children occupied during the wedding, consider bringing age-appropriate activities. Pack coloring books, puzzles, and other quiet games to keep them entertained during the ceremony and reception. Be sure to bring snacks and drinks to keep them hydrated and nourished throughout the event.

What are the wedding promises to step children? ›

“I promise to always to treat you with love and respect. I promise to nurture my relationship with you and always be there for you in any way I can. I promise to support you in your relationship with both your mother and father and I promise always to listen.

How do you involve kids at a wedding? ›

The most obvious way to include kids into the ceremony would be to have them have a role to play. Kids make great flower girls, ring bearers and escorts. They could even be part of the wedding party as a junior bridesmaid or junior groomsman.

What is the explanation of the Orthodox wedding ceremony? ›

The Sacrament of Marriage in the Eastern Orthodox Church derives from the belief that marriage exists from God's creation of the first man and the first woman. As such, the couple does not exchange vows, but is united by the grace of God. The marriage ceremony is steeped in ritual and symbolism.

What is the meaning of the unity ceremony at a wedding? ›

A unity ceremony is a symbolic ritual woven into the wedding ceremony; handfasting, circling, and the lighting of a unity candle are common examples. Ultimately, these meaningful rituals are performed during a wedding to represent the union of marriage.

What is queer wedding? ›

Same-sex marriage, also known as gay marriage, is the marriage of two people of the same legal sex. As of 2024, marriage between same-sex couples is legally performed and recognized in 36 countries, with a total population of 1.3 billion people (17% of the world's population).

What is the kissing game at a wedding? ›

The Kissing Game! Instead of clinking glasses at the wedding reception, the person must come up to the head table and roll the D20 in front of the couple. A roll of 11-20 results in the couple kissing! A roll of 1-10 results in you having to kiss someone else.

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