Before You Say ‘I Do’—6 Bridal Shower Outfits to Shop First (2024)

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Spring is upon us which means our calendars are inevitably about to fill up with showers and I don’t mean the kind that bring May flowers. I mean the kind that feature mini cakes, huge gift boxes filled with exciting things like mix masters and monogrammed cutting boards and, ideally, a lot of champagne. That’s right, bridal shower season is almost here. While there technically isn’t a firm calendar date for bridal showers, as summer is the most popular time for wedding parties (and after-parties!), that would make early spring the unofficial start of The Shower Season.

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In recent years, there has been a strong trend toward themed ones, perhaps to inject a bit of fun into a sometimes formulaic event of “bride wears white, bride opens presents, everyone toasts the bride, everyone goes home.” Regardless of theme, most showers have two things in common: the bride will almost always want to wear white and there will be lots of champagne. With that in mind, below are some perfect bridal shower outfit ideas for some of the most popular themes.

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The Classic Bridal Shower

A classic bridal shower is usually a mid morning or mid afternoon affair that requires a virginal white outfit for the bride and a lot of present opening. If you are a guest at one of these, prepare your best “ooohs” and “aaahhhs” ahead of time so you can act delighted with each new serving spoon and blender the bride opens. Outfit-wise, I’d fully embrace this period in your life where wearing white to everything is completely acceptable and go head-to-toe tonal from your dress to your shoes and accessories.

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Hill House Home

Jacqueline dress

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Khaite

River slingback pumps

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Gucci

Jackie small shoulder bag

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Sophie Buhai

hair clip

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Staud

mini Bella dress

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Jennifer Behr

Gretta bow barette

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Khaite

Laybin jacket

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Ronny Kobo

Bartlet maxi skirt

The Garden Shower

Garden showers do sometimes take place in actual gardens so correct footwear is key here, no stilettos or anything too high that’ll sink like quicksand into grass. It’s nice to lean into the theme and dress in florals: for the bride this might mean a white dress with a subtle floral nod while for the guest this could be any floral pattern. If you typically shy away from prints, consider a bold or pastel hue—just stay away from black or navy if for no other reason than for the bride’s photos!

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Zimmermann

belted pleated printed midi dress

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Altuzarra

Watermill raffia shoulder bag

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Hill House Home

Elsie nap dress

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Maryam Nassir Zadeh

carnation scrunchie

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Zimmermann

Matchmaker rose-appliquéd maxi skirt

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Staud

Billie wedge sandals

The Afternoon Tea Shower

Arguably the most “traditional” of the bridal shower themes, an afternoon tea recalls bridal showers of bygone eras when the bride’s mother and grandmother would put out mini sandwiches and brag about their son-in-law-to-be to all of their friends. I remember my mother telling me about a bridal shower in her honor but all of the guests were her mother’s friends. Today’s tea showers still feature mini sandwiches but happily also include the bride’s actual friends as well. Any afternoon dress is a safe bet here for both bride and guest.

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J.Crew

Frances lady jacket

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Emilia Wickstead

Margie gown

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David Yurman

pearl and pavé station necklace

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Savette

Symmetry bag

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Self-Portrait

belted pleated midi dress

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Altuzarra

Medallion envelope satin clutch bag

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Manolo Blahnik

Maysale 50 buckled mules

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Roxanne Assoulin

Raj gold-tone crystal earrings

The Boozy Brunch

Somewhere between a bachelorette and a traditional shower, a bridal brunch means it’s appropriate to drink in the morning. “It’s 10:30 AM in the morning, are those women drunk? Oh! It’s a bridal shower. That’s ok then, good for them!” Outfit-wise, I’d go with a chic day dress, a two-piece suit situation, or a ladylike jacket with a matching skirt. Shoe-wise, think embelisshed flats or anything in the kitten heel realm to make it comfortable enough for the day but, of course, still festive.

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Self-Portrait

cropped embellished blazer

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Self-Portrait

belted midi skirt

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Alaïa

Le Coeur shoulder bag

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Aeyde

Roda leather sandals

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Clio Peppiatt

embellished mini dress

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Clio Peppiatt

pearl bag

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Raey

single-breasted waistcoat

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Raey

Giant pleat-front suit trousers

The Couples’ co*cktail Shower

A couples’ shower is sort of an engagement party 2.0—a chance to let the men in on the fun, up the ante on the outfit choices and add martinis to the appropriate drinks list. For the bride, I’d recommend something fun and slightly OTT: feathers, sequins, perhaps even a jumpsuit. For the guest I’d stick to similar themes but opt for a fun color or interesting pattern. For the men…oh who am I kidding, no one cares what the men are wearing at these events!

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16Arlington

Hoku cropped feather-trimmed top

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16Arlington

Brisbane cropped feather-trimmed pants

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Mateo

earrings

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Khaite

Aimee clutch

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Graff

Tilda's Bow stud earrings

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Bottega Veneta

Jodie Candy micro mini knotted bag

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Asceno

Bordeaux V-back satin midi dress

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Studio Amelia

Wishbone 50 heels

The Beach Shower

Pack the SPF, we’re taking the bride to the beach! Crochet is key when it comes to events near sand and bodies of water. It’s smart enough to look elevated and festive but breathable and appropriate for warmer temps. And while a beach bridal shower doesn’t typically require an actual bathing suit, I’d have one on my bag for a much-needed dip after a day of bridal pleasantries.

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Agua by Agua Bendita

Zilia Caracola cropped crocheted top

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Agua by Agua Bendita

Arroyo Caracola printed crocheted midi skirt

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Magda Butrym

Magda mini bead-embellished crocheted tote

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A.Emery

Lucia leather sandals

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Posse

Emma vest

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Posse

Emma maxi skirt

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Loewe

small leather-trimmed basket tote

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Julietta

Le Splash earrings

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FAQs

What is the protocol for a bridal shower? ›

"You can invite whomever you would like from the wedding guest list. Keep the guest list small and manageable, don't have too many showers, and don't invite the same people to multiple showers," says Gottsman. "If someone is not invited to the wedding, they should not be invited to the shower."

What color should a bride wear to a bridal shower? ›

It's traditional for the bride, or the couple, to wear white at the bridal shower. This also includes pastel shades, like blush or soft blue, that can be photographed as looking white. All other colors—like bold, bright colors and prints—are fair game.

What not to do when planning a bridal shower? ›

Don'ts
  1. Don't confuse the bridal shower with the bachelorette party. These are two separate events. ...
  2. Don't post every aspect of the shower on social media. ...
  3. Don't invite anyone who isn't invited to the wedding. ...
  4. Don't give raunchy gifts at the bridal shower. ...
  5. Don't feel like you have to plan the whole shower yourself.
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What is the dress code of bride shower? ›

Bridal showers typically have three common dress code options: formal/co*cktail attire, semi-formal attire, and casual attire. Following the dress code ensures that you blend in with the atmosphere and show your respect for the occasion.

Who should not host a bridal shower? ›

Traditional etiquette dictates that the maid of honor—not the mother of the bride—should host the shower. Nancy is a freelance writer for MarthaStewart.com. Some etiquette rules were meant to fade away into oblivion, like the one about family members of the bride not hosting her bridal shower.

What color is the mother of the bride's dress supposed to be? ›

Typically the Mother of the Bride's dress should complement the bridal party's color palette. Not necessarily match with the bridesmaids, but choose a color in the color family. The most popular color for the mother of the bride to wear is navy or a royal blue, followed by blush or a shade of nude.

Who pays for bridal shower for bride? ›

Nowadays, the person (or people) hosting the bridal shower are responsible for covering the costs associated with the shower.

Does the mother of the bride do the bridal shower? ›

"Under optimum circ*mstances, the attendants in the bridal party would host the shower," said Gottsman. According to Gottsman, the mother of the bride (MOB) should be a guest, but should not participate.

What you Cannot wear to bridal shower? ›

Pastels, neutrals, florals, and bright celebratory colors are the way to go. And if there's going to be games opt to wear something comfortable. Avoid wearing white, black, or anything that may detract from the wedding festivities.

What is the best time of day for a bridal shower? ›

Pick the right time of day.

A bridal shower usually starts between 10:30 a.m. and 3 p.m. and lasts between two and four hours. If the bridal shower theme includes brunch, you'd want to host the event on the earlier side, while an afternoon tea would be on the later side.

How many days before your wedding should you have a bridal shower? ›

Most bridal showers are usually held three weeks to three months before the wedding. The trick is not to plan it too far in advance or too close to the wedding date.

Are mother in laws invited to bridal showers? ›

Exceptions would be the maid of honor, bridesmaids and maybe even the mother-of-the-bride and mother-in-law. The only exception to the wedding guest rule would be if co-workers wish to throw a shower for office people only as a way to celebrate with the bride even though they will not all be attending the wedding.

What should mom wear to a bridal shower? ›

If this is the case, the mother of the bride's bridal shower outfit should veer on the elegant-but-fuss-free side: a simple dress or even a sophisticated blouse with a skirt or dress pants should do the trick. If the bridal shower is an evening event, then keep on reading for other cues as to what to wear…

Are there colors you shouldn't wear to a bridal shower? ›

By choosing to wear color, you avoid breaking the main rule of all bridal celebrations: don't wear white. That's the bride's color range, so that includes beiges, creams, and anything in that color family. And unless explicitly stated, you shouldn't try and match the bridal party to the exact shade either.

What is supposed to happen at a bridal shower? ›

They give the bride's nearest and dearest a chance to meet and bond, they often feature fun games and delicious food, and they come with gifts for everyone (favors for the attendees, presents for the person of honor, and tokens of gratitude for the hostess—more on that last one later).

Do I bring a gift to a bridal shower? ›

In short, yes. If you're attending a bridal shower, you should always bring a gift with you to congratulate the bride. This is considered good bridal shower etiquette. Even if you're a part of the bridal party or wedding party, a gift is still necessary.

What is the tradition of the bridal shower? ›

While the exact origin of bridal showers is unknown, many historians believe the tradition started in 16th century Belgium when a young girl's father refused to provide a dowry to a marriage he disapproved of, so the town got together and “showered” her with small gifts when combined, were more valuable than her dowry.

How much do you give for a bridal shower gift? ›

The Knot suggests an attendee should spend between 50 to 75 dollars on a shower gift. (However, if you also got the couple an engagement gift, the 20-20-60 rule can also apply—so your shower gift should cost 20 percent of your total budget.)

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